RUTHEMEYER, Ruth Marie (Oberlander), beloved wife of 63 years to Charles W. Ruthemeyer, dear sister of Grace E. Corcoran and Janet (Richard) Hauck, also survived by many nieces, nephews, great-nieces & great-nephews. Thursday, January 2, 2003. Age 84 years. Funeral service held at the convenience of the family. No Visitation. Memorials may be made to Westwood United Methodist Church, 3450 Epworth Avenue, 45211.